Thursday, June 16, 2011

It has been great being back!

Woah, you guys get two blogs within a days time! I was expecting mine to go out before Karen’s but I guess she’s too quick for me. Be sure to read hers, though, it’s more important than mine, because we all need to be praying for Ti-Luc’s adoption process right now.

Karen and Ti Luc on the beach

I’d like to start off by thanking the Canadian group for all of their help and love while they served with us in Haiti. I know Karen was blessed by them, and Jess and I were as well! Thank you! I’d also like to thank those of you who keep track of what’s going on here through the blog. We get so much encouragement through your comments to us and your constant prayers!

While the Canadian team was here, Jess and I had a conversation with Gerry in which he gave us the idea to blog about our background. We have realized that most of you probably don’t know much about us. You may know where we’re from and hints of our personality through the blog, but that’s about all. So in our next few blogs, Jess and I will share with you some of our background; where we came from, how we met, and a few of our life experiences. I’ll do so at the end of this blog.

Jess and I would also like to thank Karen for allowing us to have a week off for our 1st wedding anniversary! It was such a blessing to have that time of rest and celebration. Since we didn’t want to use much money, we found the cheapest all inclusive in the D.R. and took a bus to Santo Domingo from Port Au Prince. We definitely got more of an experience than our money paid for! 12 hours of traveling each way- Jess didn’t go to the bathroom either way because the bathrooms were, um, disgusting (i don’t blame her!); hours at the border due to customs and on the way back, our driver just decided to drive through without getting our bags checked because it was taking so long (and we got away with it!); we drove through at least a foot of water for at least an hour both ways (our bags were soaked when we got home, but thankfully not on the way there!).

This

 
 Whatever it takes

And that’s just the travel! The hotel was a bit shady too. We both felt more comfortable sleeping in our bed in Haiti and cleaner taking showers in our Haitian shower. The food was good, but only because it was something different (Marguerite makes better food!). We thought we were getting away to luxury, but the first night definitely didn’t seem like that. Honestly, the first night we had to sit down together, change our attitudes, and give it up to God. Good thing we did, because now we wouldn’t change our experience for the world! The hotel or food didn’t get better, but we realize that luxury isn’t in things. It helped that the hotel had a nice beach with a bunch of free things to do! We spent so much time relaxing, whether it be laying on the beach, kayaking, swimming, snorkeling or just watching tv. We were glad to come home, though and start fresh, and we were missing the kids!

It has been great being back! We were refreshed and ready to get back to work. Karen is staying busy at the school since it is exam week. She’s a blur in the morning, running back and forth. But we’re in the planning process for an office over at the school so that she doesn’t have to run between the school and the office at her house so much next year. Exams finish tomorrow! Which means that school is out! Which means that we just get to play and have fun all summer- having water fights, going to the public pool, playing mini golf, taking a trips Six Flags and eating coneys at Sonic! Okay, maybe not, but things will slow down a bit and we will have a bit more fun. Don’t worry, though, we won’t stop working!

Jess is staying busy in the office and Karen is delegating more to her in order to lighten her own load. Jess also had church to prepare for on Sunday. I’ve been working on a bunch of little things; a stall door in the girls home, clothes hanger bars in the girls rooms, electrical in the front depot, cleaning up the clothes lines for the kids, organizing, and running new plumbing and electrical for the new washer Karen got for Madame St. Arc. Now she doesn’t have to wash all the clothes by hand! She only has to hang them up! She’s been very happy this week in anticipation of me getting the washer hooked up! Also, last week I painted the basketball backboard. Tuesday morning, I spent hours painting the backboard. Then sometime in the afternoon someone vandalized it by painting USA with stars in red, white, and blue!

USA!

Were

No one saw who did it, but the kids blamed me for some reason! But why would I?! It’s not like the USA and Canada were playing a big soccer match that night in the Gold Cup and only one child (Djeumima) took sides with Jess and I. Or maybe that was the case! Okay, I did it! And it was great seeing the reactions of the kids and of Karen as she ran in vain to find spray paint to paint over it! My actions did start a fire in Karen and the kids though, because when Jess and I showed up to the house that evening to watch the game, they were prepared to make noise for their team- Canada! It was a fun evening!

Team Canada!

Team USA

And the next day I painted over the backboard to something all the kids could agree with! And Yes, Jason, that color is Aqua Chinte!

HATS all stars

Who remembers my previous story about our mouse “friend” Jean Claude and the disappearance of our recipes? Well, we found our recipes!

Recipes Found!

One of the first things Jason did when he was here, was give Jess and I some advice on how to catch mice. His suggestion was to put water in the bottom of a bucket and rub peanut butter around the inside of the bucket with a stick leaned up against it. The mouse climbs the stick to get the peanut butter, falls, and ‘Fini”. Either the joke’s on us, or mice here don’t like peanut butter, because we didn’t even get a sniff all week! In our frustration we turned to our best source of advice- the Bible. The Bible doesn’t really have any useful advice on how to get rid of mice, but it’s an obvious choice to use as a tool to get rid of mice. Take a look at our library, “The Great Divorce” by C.S. Lewis and “Crazy Love” by Francis Chan are too small- they don’t have enough weight to kill a mouse with one hit. It seems inhumane to kill a mouse with multiple blows and afterall, I wouldn’t want the regret Mel Gibson felt in “The Patriot.” Beth Moore workbooks have a good striking surface, but don’t have the needed weight. Also, they’re paperback and flexibility is not good. You need something that has a good striking surface and is heavy as well. A rock won’t due because although it is heavy, it could also damage the surroundings. The Bible on the other hand is thousands of pages long and in hardback form provides not only the weight, but also the striking surface needed to be an effective weapon, and it won’t damage anything or be damaged itself. I believe the Bible refers to itself as a double edged sword. In my case, I will refer to it as a mouse trap, effective in getting rid of them. If any of you are interested in using our methods, I suggest not using the NLT(New Living Translation). Either its definition of the word love is too modern, or my small print leatherback version didn’t get the job done in one smack, which has caused me to give it a new name- the SLT or Still Living Translation.

The kids in awe of the baby mice

Sunday was a wonderful day with three very important and meaningful things happening! First, Church was wonderful! That morning, Jess gave me an un-mandatory(mandatory) assignment. To sing “Give me Jesus” in Creole for worship. Although I wasn’t pumped to do it at first and was nervous, I’m glad for her encouragement (She makes me a better person!), because it went better than expected and we got to teach it to the whole congregation. And it’s been a blessing hearing the kids singing it the past few days! The Presence of God was very present during the service. A few adults gave a special by doing some drama and a song which was beautiful. And Jess’ lesson was on longing for God and both adult and child comprehended what she taught! She brought the kids on a journey through the school that represented God’s people going through the dessert to get to the promised land. Karen got up at the end in tears, thanking all for serving Christ through the talents He’s given them and pleading that we be mindful in sharing Christ with others. It was a powerful service!

Walking through the desert

Journey to the promised land

Second, We celebrated Dieunel and Jofky’s birthdays! Jofky turned two and Dieunel turned 5. The birthday boys sat in the center chairs and waited as we got everyone else together. It took a while and you could tell that Jofky was sitting there getting more and more annoyed every second that food wasn’t in his mouth. They both received a few toys and we finished the party by seeing who could catch thrown candy with their mouth! Ann wanted to play too so she stuffed a piece of fudge in her mouth that she found.

Why am i not eating right now

Bon fet!

TOYS!

Jofky playing with his truck!

Ann with a full mouth of chocolate

Third, the Dallas Mavs beat the Miami Heat in the NBA Finals!

Our frequent evening walks have slowed down due to the rainy season coming. We have fit a few in the past week though. One of them included a lot of mud and dirty children and the other included a breakthrough with Jofky. All who know Jof, know his belly too. He likes to sit in the stroller or be held, but on our last walk he RAN 4 times for at least 100 feet each time!

MudWalk

Looks like fun

Is

oops!!

Baby Sandra walks too. Shades & plug needed

Now for some background on Jess and I. I’m going to blog this week about where we came from because it was very real to us this past week in what we were learning. We come from Montgomery County, Illinois. We’ve both lived there the majority of our lives. Jess moved to Hillsboro when she was 6 (over 4 thousand in population) and I grew up in Coffeen (750 in population) which is 6 miles from Hillsboro, I mean, Hillsboro is 6 miles away from Coffeen! There’s not much difference between Coffeen and Hillsboro (except that Coffeen always bred better athletes!). It’s a small town area, with a real family feel where you’re taught good midwestern morals and work ethic. You can drive 5 minutes in any direction and be absolutely nowhere, which I would consider a good thing! I loved growing up in Coffeen where me and my siblings could ride our bikes all over town without our parents being in fear. I have so many great memories of wading in creeks, building trails in the woods, exploring the lake, trips to the laundry mat, picking strawberries, throwing walnuts at the mailbox, and playing every sport imaginable with friends, and I know Jess has the same types of memories from Hillsboro. It’s an area with few attractions, which can easily lead to boredom, but it brings the challenge of making up fun. Our families always encouraged that, so we were always thinking of creative ways to have fun. That continued throughout high school and college and even after. For us, it was a great place to grow up, and it would be a great place to live.

One day last week, I spent some time thanking God for the blessing of Coffeen. The thoughts spurred from thinking about how proud God is of where he comes from. Everything he does is for the purpose of bringing more into his wonderful kingdom. The cool thing was that I thought and wrote all this without knowing what Jess was working on for the sermon on Sunday- Psalm 84. “How lovely is your dwelling place, O God.” “A single day in your courts is better than a thousand elsewhere.” “What a joy for those who can live in your house always singing your praises.” Think about it, those that are proud of where they come from make you want to visit their home. The Canada group was so proud of their home, especially the NewFoundlanders, and it makes Jess and I want to visit there! I thought about my experience in Coffeen growing up. I had such a great family experience (which I will write about later), and such a good Christian community through high school and especially college in which we spent so much time in Coffeen. I’d like to share with you what I wrote in my prayer journal that day....

“Father, I praise you for your ability to do the miraculous and for pride in your kingdom. There are people who are proud of the place they came from and people who aren’t. Those who are make you want to visit their home, even if it’s not the coolest place in the world. There are so many people who have a special place in their heart for Coffeen, IL and because of it there are so many more who want to visit. Coffeen wouldn’t be considered one of the top places to visit in the world, or in Illinois, or even in Montgomery County. It doesn’t have many sights to see or attractions or good shopping; it’s not culturally modern or relevant, but it has deep spiritual history. Many have found spiritual insight and refreshment there- true friendship through open dialogue and late night cups of coffee. There’s a pure environment of community where all are invited to share their minds despite differences, while still having its foundation in Jesus. You’re free to have fun without holding a beer in your hand, because enjoyment is created, not copied. People laugh together in each others joys and cry together in each others sorrows. Hurts are forgiven and differences are left at the door. All this produces and environment of encouragement and creative fun. People are free to be who God has made them to be. Coffeen may be entirely different for someone else, but this is my experience. And Father, however weird an avenue for praise this is, it is one that is more real than usual. I praise you for the experience and environment of true Christianity! And however awesome I can make Coffeen sound, your home is so much better! I would never choose Coffeen over Heaven! One of the beauties of Coffeen is that it doesn’t make me homesick here in Haiti, but rather confirms that I am exactly where I am supposed to be! It wouldn’t be the place it is if I had stayed, because the purpose of my learning there was to go out and serve. It is a place of refreshment and renewed vision.”

My physical home is Coffeen, but my spiritual home is Heaven. The question we need to ask ourselves is, “Do we do a good enough job of causing others to want to go to our home- Heaven that is?”

We’ll end with a few random photos that should make you smile. Enjoy!

A pick up game

Buckethead!

Jess and Ann

Leica and Naomi

Playing in the rain

 
 She's got stars in her eyes

Silly Girls

Two thumbs up

What a smile!

Judel helping out

The Girls

Wednesday, June 15, 2011

End of School, Prayer Request

Sorry about it being two weeks since a blog has been posted. We are long overdue and hopefully we can pay up for it by blogging more often. Actually you might get doubly blessed this week as I think Seth is also doing a blog.

School is almost finished for this year and my children are glad. No one, however, can possibly be happier than I am about this. Tomorrow, Thursday, is the last day of exams. O happy day Friday! Tuesday the teachers will be preparing the report cards and on Thursday students and parents come to pick them up. O even happier day next Friday! I do enjoy being involved in the school but it is now time for a break from it. I look forward to catching up on more things in the office. Jessie has been a big help with the office work. Without her help I think I might have a lot less hair, and be a lot less sane, at this point.

Gr 7 & 8 Writing Exams

Mama and Son Resting

Now we are getting ready to start another construction project - building an office for our school. I will post photos of the work.

Jessie has recently been sending information to those in my address book to let you know that you can sign up to have the blogs download to your Inbox. People have been requesting this and we have found out it is possible. Follow instructions below.

If you go to the blog website hatshaiti.blogspot.com, you will find a blue section on the right hand column. Right above the pictures of the followers, there is a place that says "Receive new posts by e-mail." In the box below, type your e-mail address and the system will send you a confirmation e-mail containing a link. When you click on that link, you are signed up and the system will send you a copy of the blog to your e-mail address whenever a new blog is posted. This can take up to 24 hours, and is not under our control, but it will appear in your inbox. We, again, want to thank you for following along with the blog and for supporting us in so many ways! Hopefully, this will make it a little easier for everyone to stay connected with what goes on here at HATS.

Moize feeding little brother Ti Luc

Please pray for me. At this moment I am fighting discouragement. Jessie and Seth just prayed with me and that has helped. You all know about Ti Luc and the adoption process that has been going on for almost 2 1/2 years. I believed that the adoption would be completed in time for me to go to Canada mid July with Ti Luc. I purchased tickets for us to fly PAP - Montreal - Halifax, with a stopover there. We were to spend a couple of days with my friend Bev in Lower Sackville, then a week in Yarmouth. We were then to fly Halifax - Deer Lake for two weeks in Newfoundland and I would be attending the 'Come Home Year Reunion' for my home town. In August we were to fly Deer Lake - Halifax - Montreal - PAP, and return home to our family here. I truly believed it would happen. I have four weeks left and I have no doption paperwork in my hands. I need the adoption papers, then need to get a passport for Ti Luc and then need to apply for a visitor's visa. An hour ago I reached the lawyer in PAP working on this and hung up feeling very discouraged. I know from the way he spoke, from what he said, and what he did not say, that the chance of it happening is slimmer than slim. I have to now accept and prepare Ti Luc and myself that we will not be going. I will not go without Ti Luc this time as he is so very excited about going to Canada soon. I will not tell him he can't go but I am going.

Dieunel being comforted by Ti Luc

Don with Ti Luc

Ti Luc and Dora

We serve a mighty God and he can do a miracle. He can make a way where there seems to be no way. At this moment I see no way it can happen but I do ask for your prayer support for me to be able to accept whatever comes and be able to accept it graciously, and to help my precious little Ti Luc accept it also. Thank you for standing with me in this as you have stood with me through everything over my years in Haiti.

Ti Luc holding Baby Sandra

I appreciate your support in every way. God bless you all.

Karen

Wednesday, June 1, 2011

Thank you team.

There is a time to come and a time to go. They came. They worked, they drank, they laughed, they drank, they slept, they drank, they walked, they drank, they spent time with my kids, they drank, they played pranks, they drank. They consumed more liquid than I thought possible. It was needed. The temperature and the humidity were both high and they drank a lot of cold beverages to keep going.

I want to say thank you to each and every one of them - for coming, and for everything thing and everyone they touched while here.

Bob, thank you. Thanks for trying to pull off a huge surprise and almost managing it. Thanks for returning once again and for all your hard work as usual.

Bob

Fabian. Thanks for coming for the first time and for the worship music and singing. It was good for me.

Fabian

Gerry, thanks for everything. For all you did before you came, while here, and for all you will continue to do when you back home. A special thank you for holding my ladder in the dark!!

Gerry

Sue, Thank you, Sue, for coming and seeing for yourself what HATS is all about, and for doing so as part of a workteam. Thank you for working in the heat when it was obvious doing so was difficult for your health. Thanks for your support in many ways. Thanks for being you.

Sue

Linda, Thanks for the awesome surprise. I am glad you came. Am I totally forgiven for the night time shenanigans on Saturday? Still good friends, right? Thanks for working hard and especially for all the help with Ti Luc.

Linda

Jennifer, Thank you for deciding to come and see what it was I was doing in Haiti all these years. Now you and Jocelyn can share with my Deer Lake family. It was great to have you here. Thanks for being willing to do anything asked of you.

Jennifer

Jason, You worked hard, enjoyed time with the kids, and helped with another important thing. You have a great sense of humour. Thanks for accepting the shenanigans Saturday night and being so wonderful about it all.

Jason

Dora, I am glad you came. Thanks for your help with Ti Luc and the other children. I appreciate it greatly. Always nice to have Newfies come.

Dora

Judy, Thank you for coming, too, and for your work painting in that heat along with the others. Thanks for the time spent with the children and time spent sewing for me. Really appreciate having the pants on my body instead of the chair.

Judy

Cory En, Thanks for returning. It was nice to have you back. Again this time you worked hard, and in the sun when necessary, at whatever was needed at any given time. Thanks for trying, along with Cory De, to 'get me' but I am still ahead.

Cory En

Cory De, Thank you for returning, too. Like Cory En you came and worked at anything and everything when needed and like the others enjoyed time with my kids. You and Cory fell short in 'getting me back'. Good try, but despite the food in my bed, no ants or cockroaches were there.

Cory De

Amanda, I am glad you came back, too. You, like the rest of the group, are a lot of fun. I appreciated your late night e-mail after the Saturday night shenanigans. Really glad your mother did not get the frantic message. Thanks for all your work too.

Amanda

Jocelyn, I am glad you came too. Two of my Deer Lake family have now been here and that means a lot to me. Thanks for the work you did and the time spent with my kids.

Jocelyn

Again a huge thank you to the whole team. The administration building/my house went from 'ugly' to 'beautiful'. The comments from people are now very different than they were before when looking at this building. The men had hoped to remove the cement at top of the pillars but without some heavy duty equipment, not available here, it was impossible. They, however, worked diligently at other things and, removed or not, the building is now beautiful.

Now beautiful

I ask all of you to please remember to pray for the mission - orphanage and school - children and workers. Lots has been done but lots more needed. Hurricane season is officially started today and it is being predicted as possibly a bad one.

Cholera is on the rampage again since the rainy season started. The numbers of people ill with it, and dying from it, are rising rapidly. Haiti needs your prayers.

What we do here at HATS in every way, on every day - I S A L L A B O U T T H E C H I L D R E N

Sunday, May 29, 2011

Blog for May 29, 2011 (Mother’s Day and Karen’s 66th birthday)

A wonderful day after Saturday Night Shenanigans. We’ll keep it brief about last evening, but suffice to say there were drums, some yelling and a lot of laughter up on the sleeping deck. Revenge was on the minds of several team members this morning as others wandered around trying to look innocent.

Newfie music time

So began our last day. It was a time of worship at church with our mission children, and others from the community. There were around 74 people at the service, including the 13 team members. What a joy to see the growth in that small church, and all the young, fresh faces playing tambourines and singing.

Children's church

Team in church

We were also treated to the children singing Mother’s Day songs, along with Happy Birthday for Karen. It’s amazing how fast a two-hour service can fly by.

Fabian providing music

Dieunel & Ti Luc at service

Special praise for the men on the team who made lunch today. Tuna melts (nothing like what Martha makes, but still.... Many exclaimed: “Best ever!” Oh, never mind....that was the cooks.)

Ti Luc and many team members also rode Haitian style in the back of Karen’s little white pickup truck this afternoon on a five-minute, wild ride to Luckner’s place. She claims to be a great driver. Others may question that – especially the ones who were riding out back.

Luckner is recovering from a fever so Karen showed us around the trade school and radio station that he is building for his community.

Many team members thought is was merely a funny joke when it was suggested there would be an extra passenger on the ride home. You guessed it: one of the prodigal goats. So there we were, crammed into the bed of the truck, goat and all hoping it wouldn’t aim in our direction if it had to go. Again, lots of laughing – for us, and the curious local Haitians who openly stared or waved as we passed.

Returning from Luckner's with the missing goat from Sat

Team and one goat - the two old goats sitting inside

Last days are bittersweet as we enjoy the last of our time with Karen, her children and each other as we prepare to leave early tomorrow morning. Tonight we’ll celebrate Karen’s birthday (again!) and savour the last Haitian supper that Martha kindly spent the afternoon preparing for us.

Happy Birthday & Happy Mother's Day Maman

Happy Mother's Day & Happy Birthday