Monday, August 15, 2011

Seth's Blog

Well, I didn’t plan on writing the blog today, but I started getting sick last night, so today I’m trying to recover. Hopefully I can get back to my work tomorrow because I’d like to get a few things done before Karen gets back. (I wrote the majority of this blog last Tuesday while I was sick. Thankfully it didn’t last and I was back to work on Wednesday. That’s the reason this blog is so late though; I got well and was too busy getting things done to finish it! I’ll add a few comments throughout the blog to update you guys and I will put those in parenthesis)

We’ve talked to Karen a few times since she’s been gone and it sounds like she is having quite the time in Canada. Of course she misses her kids here, but she’s getting some much needed rest. yesterday she called and got to speak to each of the children! They are so happy and a few of them have already started asking , “when will mom be home?” All we’re telling them right now is, “soon,” but they haven’t quite grasped the concept of that term yet and think it means later today. Needless to say we’re getting bombarded by the kids!

Here’s an update for Karen on Ti Luc:). He’s still having a great time, but he still misses you. We decided that we probably shouldn’t feed him cinnamon rolls every day or he might not want to leave our house. Over the weekend, though, we made french toast. Ti Luc had already eaten because he was too hungry to wait for the french toast, but after he smelled it and saw what we were making he insisted that he had some too. I told him that only French people eat french toast so he wasn’t going to be able to have any. That didn’t do it for him, though. He kept insisting. So we came to the conclusion that he could have some if he had a french mustache. He was more than fine with that, and if we wouldn’t have washed it off, he would have kept it all day- He was proud of his mustache! Jess also got some new hair this week, thanks to Antwa!

He misses you!
The Frenchman!
Jess getting her hair done

As for work, not much has changed. Jess finished painting the devotion room and is now working on the front depo (She finished it!)

Li Bel!

I’m still working on dressers part of the day, but have also started putting up new separating doors at the school to split up the preschool classes(I finished those Thursday). I’m building the dressers in the devotion room because that’s where I have the most room. It thought it was going to be really tough building with the kids around (and it has been at times), but the kids have behaved very well. One day all the little kids sat very attentively and watched me build for about an hour. It may have made a difference that Jess and I had convinced them that I was building houses for frogs and lizards. We’ve been giving the dressers to the kids as they have been finished. To keep the kids from any sort of jealousy, we’ve been drawing names out of a hat. The kids are so excited to get their dresser! Hopefully this sickness doesn’t persist so I can get those things done. (I finished the dressers and we gave them out over the weekend. The kids had a great time moving all their clothes and reorganizing their rooms!)

Dressers 101 with prof Huber
Eating watermelon and waiting to see who gets the first dresser
Dresser
Organizing
Finished

The kids have also been doing a little work this week. They’ve been cleaning the sides of the kids homes- even Ti Luc was pitching in on the work.

Working hard
Cleaning Day
Cleaning day2

It hasn’t been that exciting of a week, other than that we’re having to conserve generator time because we’re running short on gas and can’t get more until Karen is home. And of course we haven’t gotten Haitian power all week! There’s not a whole lot to say, but I will share a couple funny stories.
God has quite a sense of humor. First, I must explain a few stories from a television show Jess and I have been watching lately. Recently a missionary friend lent Seinfeld season 6 to Jess and I, so we’ve been watching one every now and again. Anyway, a few weeks ago, we watched the “Big Salad” episode. In the episode Elaine asked George and his girlfriend to pick up a big salad for her from the cafe they eat at all the time. George paid for the big salad but the girlfriend picked it up and proceeded to give it to Elaine without any explanation as to who bought the big salad. This bothered George so he subtly told Elaine that he had bought the big salad to which she and eventually the girlfriend got upset that George had to have credit for it. In the next episode, the Seinfeld crew went to a different cafe and Elaine tried to purchase a big salad, but the waitress said that they only have small salads. The reason those stories are so funny is because both of them were reenacted here last week. 1. While Jess was painting the devotion room she overheard Karena(2) and Judel(3) having a conversation. One of the kids favorite things to do here is act like they are making different kinds of food. Anyway, Karena said to Judel, “I have a little salad for you.” To which Judel responded, “I don’t want a little salad, I want a big one!” And Karena replied, “I ONLY have a little salad!” 2. A few days ago Marguerite(who cooks for Jess and I) brought a big bag of cherries to devotions which she had picked up on her way to work. Later that morning, Jess and I were on our way back to the house and Jacque stopped us. He wanted to inform us that he had given the cherries to Marguerite. We thought it was slightly funny because we both thought of Seinfeld, but we thanked him for his generosity. When we got upstairs, we told Marguerite how thankful we were for the cherries that Jacque had given us, and she started laughing out loud. She told us that he had only given her 4 cherries to put into the bag with the rest of the cherries!
Oh, I forgot about tropical storm Emily! I guess I forgot about it because it didn’t hit us. We had a scare at first because it was projected to go right over us, but it shifted course and missed us completely. We had the chance of getting up to 20 inches of rain, but we didn’t get any and only had an overcast day.
So when the Canada team came in May, they sent along names or phrases for each of the kids and for Karen’s home. Well, we also got a phrase for our house too. Jess found it under a pile of stuff in our office this week so we finally put it up. Thanks, its perfect! And thanks also for the kitchen utensils!

Welcome to Easter Zone

I promised last time that I would write about my background a bit. Well, Here we go. Some people would say my testimony is a bit boring, and I actually used to struggle with that a bit. I mean, if you’ve gone to church for a big part of your life you’ve heard many people’s stories of how they were dramatically changed from a life of sin to a relationship with Jesus. Praise God for those stories because of God’s grace! I don’t have one of those stories. I gave my heart to Jesus when I was a little boy (5 years old or so). I realize, what does that mean at that age? Did my life drastically change at that time? It didn’t stop me from pouring pickles into my mom’s fresh load of laundry or enticing my brother to spray a water hose into our bedroom window. More importantly than getting saved so young, I grew up in a strong Christian family. I didn’t just hear about Christianity, I saw it in action in my family and the church we were involved in. I was encouraged to grow in Christ everyday. In one of my previous blogs, I wrote about the hometown that I grew up in. I realize that Coffeen was a lot different for me than it was for a lot of other people. That’s because it’s not about the place you live, it’s about the people you live with. My experience in Coffeen, is completely based on the family I grew up in. The reason my testimony is boring is because I never did drugs, or got drunk, or had sex before marriage; I didn’t have some big rebellious period in life or a time when I seriously doubted who God is. That has nothing to do with me, though, I’ve realized that I needed just as much grace as those who have a “good” testimony. Also, who knows who I would be now if I didn’t realize my need for Christ so young. I think as Christians, we get glimpses of our primal nature from time to time and I realize that without keeping myself in check, I would have passion for money, fame and women. I would probably be a much different person now and who knows if I would have been able to let those things go after I had them. Even if I have lived a pretty “righteous” life, I still can’t claim to be “good,” even if I feel like I deserve that tag at times, because Jesus didn’t even claim to be “good.” (“Why do you call me good?” Jesus asked. “Only God is truly good.” Mark 10:18) Jesus knew that the definition of good was in his father- in God. All, I know is that I thank God for his grace in giving me a boring testimony.

So how did I get here? Let’s start a long time ago- I was born Sep. 5th 1983 to Stan and Cindy Huber. I have 2 sisters(3 and 4 years older than me) and 1 brother(1 year younger), and we were all home schooled through high school. Through Jr. High and High school our family hosted foreign exchange students from all over the world. We all went to Greenville College in central Illinois. Since it was only 20 minutes from our home, Coffeen was the place to go for late night coffee and games. While I was on college, I really started to develop my Christian worldview. One of the things I realized was that I don’t want to do something just because that’s the way it’s “supposed” to be done. My senior year in college, I even questioned why I went to college, not that I didn’t have a good future but because of the pressure of so many youth to go to college no matter what. This wasn’t a rebellious spirit toward everything, but toward the American Christian worldview. I mean, is it God’s will for every youth in America to go to college? I would say no, but that’s the pressure a lot of youth felt. I didn’t want to do something because it would give me success in the world or make me a lot of money so I could have a comfortable house for my wife and two kids. I’m not saying those things are bad, unless it’s not what God wants for you. I wanted to do God’s will at all cost.

I think the rest of my life reflects this thought to an extent. I studied Sports Management and Business in college. I was also really involved in soccer. After college, I got the opportunity to try out for some professional soccer teams, so I didn’t want to miss out on that opportunity. In the process of trying that, I realized I also needed to make some money and since my dad was a carpenter and he had taught me some things, I started to do that to give me the opportunity to pursue soccer. Soccer fell through, but during the process I realized how much I loved carpentry and also that I didn’t like the hours involved with sports management. Carpentry changed from doing it to play soccer, into doing it to travel and serve and because I loved it. Over the next few years, I traveled to Kenya, Brazil, Romania, and Mexico (multiple times) on mission trips, all the while developing a business in carpentry. God gave me a peace in ‘wasting’ my college education, because I was doing what He wanted. Also, I would never give up going to college when and where I did because I was a part of 3 of my soccer teammates turning their lives to Jesus (which is alone worth college tuition), as well as my spiritual development during that time, friendships, and because for about two years straight my carpentry clients were all professors at the college!

This thought process also played a part in my marriage to my beautiful wife Jessie! We are 5 and a half years apart. A lot of people will say there’s nothing wrong with that, but I started dating her when I was out of college and she was a senior in high school. Everything in my pride told me no, but I questioned, “is this weird because people think it’s weird, or because God thinks it’s weird?” And I realized that God didn’t think so. If I hadn’t let go of my pride in that, I wouldn’t have the wonderful woman that I do now!

Now Jess and I are here in Haiti. We “shouldn’t” really be here. Our original plan was to teach overseas, but somewhere “responsible” (where we’d make money and live at least somewhat comfortably). But Christ tells us to “take up your cross” and follow Him- not just whenever we want, but in all situations. It would be so much easier being home with our family and friends, “preparing” for the future. Instead, Christ has said, “take up your cross, trust me with your future here on earth, and I will prepare you for a better future in heaven.” In doing so, we’ve found peace and joy and the refreshing streams of life here in a place I wouldn’t call the land of “milk and honey.”

(We are going to pick up Karen today as well as Jess’ brother and sister and my brother and a friend. The kids are so excited to have Maman home and we are so excited to have our family come and share this experience with us!)

Here are some more photos from the week for you to enjoy! Thanks for your support of our ministry here and we pray that God fills you with His Spirit as you seek him and that His grace guides you as you serve him!

Love, The HATS team

Moise Sandra and Ismyis
Ann in her favorite place
Deiunel and JJ
Milan and JJ enjoying their watermellon
Clean laundry
Three Hungry Goats
Josie on the swing
Djemima taking care of Ann
Jofky gets his turn
Our visitor

Wednesday, August 10, 2011

Hello from Canada

Hello from Canada, actually from the best part of Canada - Newfoundland - lovingly known as 'The Rock'. Some may think the island is called the 'The Rock' due to the large amount of rock on the island which is obvious as soon as the ferry docks in Port aux Basques. I, however, think it is thus due to the people of Newfoundland, the Newfies, who are 'rocks'. 'Rock solid' in every way. They are the best, friendliest, nicest, most hard working, most encouraging, most accepting, most supportive, and the funniest people anywhere. Oh, did I say I am I am a Newfoundlander - a Newfie? Did I say I am proud of it? Perhaps I am a tad prejudiced, but ask non Newfies and I bet they will agree with me. Throughout the world there are Newfies and there are Wannabees. If I were not a born and bred Newfie I would certainly wannabee one.

The morning I left Haiti I held the hand of my 'special' boy and assured him Mama would return to him after a couple of weeks. Our tears mingled as I promised him that but he believed me because when I have left him I have always returned. The Springdale town reunion celebrations are finished, people have gone, or are leaving, and I am now looking forward to going home to Ti Luc and to all my children. As much as I look forward to seeing my kids again I know it will not be easy to leave The Rock. Just as a part of me stays in Haiti when I come to Canada, a part of me stays here when I leave it again.

Mama Karen promising Ti Luc she will return to him soon

From July 29th to August 7th the town of Springdale held a fantastic 'Come Home Year' reunion celebrating the past 50 years. I have been blessed to be a part of this reunion. I am thankful to three people at the Hands Across the Sea - Haiti Mission - Luckner, Jessie and Seth - who are covering for me so I can be here. I have enjoyed the RCMP Musical Ride, fun family time, walking along the shore as we did as children, and much more.

RCMP Musical Ride

I have three siblings living now in Nlfd (well one was smart enough to not leave Nfld in the first place), one in NS, and all five of us have been together here on the rock this year. They are the best family any girl (okay old girl) could ever have. I have had fun reconnecting with extended family members and friends whom I have not seen for years - some many years. While here I sat on the deck of the old homestead, looking at the water, remembering and thanking God for what I had growing up and who and where I am today. I give credit to my mother that I am loving, living, and working in Haiti. The word 'loving' is more important by far than the words living and working. The loving I do on my children in the orphanage, on the children in the school, and the people in the community surrounding the mission, stems from my Springdale, Newfoundland upbringing and from the teachings of my mother. I will always thank God that I am a Newfie - a Springdalite.

When we five old kids were five young kids there was a photo taken of us in our yard in order of age, Don being the oldest and Sandra being the youngest. January 2011 the five of us had one done in Haiti when the four of my siblings came down to help. Last week we had another photo done of us five standing in the same spot, in the same order, in the yard of the old homestead. I will try to include them with this blog. Too, I will include some random photos of my time in Newfoundland.

Five kids (us)
Five 'old' kids in same order of age at old homestead
5 kids in Haiti

Karen & Micah (one fine great nephew)
Sandra with Springdale and old homestead behind her
 On the last day for us together we held an afternoon reunion at the old homestead, with the awesome view of the bay, for the workteam that came to Haiti in January 2011. Cousin Jim from BC was missing as well as Luckner. We had a group photo taken, including Luckner in absentia but for some reason he had to remain sitting.

Jan 2011 reunion crew
Jan 11 crew minus Jim
Jan 2011 reunion Karen, Luckner and Dave
Don preparing to scan a photo needed for the blog

You will hear from me when I am back in Haiti hand in hand with my children again.

It has been good to see many of you here on 'The Rock'. I would love for you to stay in touch.

Blessings everyone.

Monday, August 1, 2011

Tag Team Blog

Jess and I have decided to tag team this blog. We wrote down a bunch of topics and are going to write as we feel inspired and then we’ll put them together to make a blog. Karen has been in Canada for almost a week now, so that being said, we should probably start out with an update on Ti Luc for her sake. Of course he misses his mom, but he’s having a great time with his older bro and sis Seth and Jessie. We gave him his own room in our house and he’s put his clothes nicely with ours, and he’s found a spot for his toothbrush and towel in the bathroom. Now, he claims to have three bedrooms that are entirely his- at momma’s, at papa’s and now at our house.

Ti Luc's New bed
Clothing placement
Hanging up his towel
Ti Luc drying his hair with Jess in the morning

We've realized that he’s quite a good eater; we can’t get him to stop eating, but I guess that could be said of any child if all you give them are cinnamon rolls, candy and ice cream! (Haha, i’m just kidding. Karen, you don’t have to come home early to save your child from us!). We've had a great time having Ti Luc in our home! We've been dancing and singing and playing a lot of hide and seek. He’s also picked up a bit of a bad habit from me....

Cinnamon Rolls for every meal!
He's got his shirt all tucked in for church
Seth teaching Ti Luc bad habits

Before Karen left for Canada, we were all running around in a frenzy trying to tie up loose knots. We ran by a couple of stores to buy needed supplies, Karen and Luckner worked hours on financial and administrative work. And well, Antoinette had a task of her own. She had to separate the chicken for the kids’ home for the next few weeks, but it was done in a way I had never seen before.

Antwas method

We also ran by Luckner’s house the day before Karen left to see the progress. Luckner’s place is beginning to look FANTASTIC. The building is pretty much done. Sometime this week they will be putting on the paint, hopefully, but we all know how Haiti is.

Luckners trade school and radio station

Last Saturday, Seth, JJ, Moise, Valdimy, and I decided to head over to the soccer field next door to see if we could round up a few boys to play a small game of soccer. When we showed up with a ball in our hands, boys of all ages came out of the woodwork to play with us. We formed teams: HATS, with a few extras, vs the community kids. The game went really well. I must preface all this by saying that Seth, the boys, and I have been going over to watch some games. We found it odd that they always wear gloves, whether or not they are goalies. Well, we quickly found out why. Let’s just say that the ground is full of small gravel, it’s easy to slip on, and very hard to clean out of your cut. Seth and I have both learned our lesson, Seth on his hand and me on my knee. Lesson one- Don’t try to stop fast or start too quickly. The game also taught me another vital lesson. Lesson two- I am not 16. I used to love being the only girl on the field and it was always a highlight to be able to keep up with them. To say the least, I was again the only girl on the field, but was struggling to keep up with the 8 year-olds. Sad realization for Jessie. Even though the kids came out of nowhere, they played as if they were a team who played together every day (pretty sure they do), despite this, HATS held their own. We won the game 10 to 8.

Last week, Jess wrote about the soccer games that we had been going to with the kids. Well, the games were a part of a tournament put on by the catholic church next door. The Thursday before Karen left was the final game, and everyone knows that a big tournament has to be ended with a weekend-long party; accompanied by late nights, loud music, screaming, gunshots, and alcohol. Those putting it on even came to HATS asking for donations for the party, because even the poor need to be able to party. Don’t worry, no money was given. The party went on from Thursday night to Saturday night (or Sunday morning) and usually didn’t quiet down until around 4am. The soccer field is probably about an arrows shot away. I guess I should define an “arrow’s shot” first. In the Lord of the Rings, arrows were shot but magical elves who could probably shoot their arrows miles or so. That’s not the case here. I’m no magical elf- I’m not even a human who has skill with a bow. My only experience with shooting arrows is at Royal Rangers camp(the Assemblies of God version of boy scouts), and I didn’t even get a ribbon! That being said, the party was very close! The bass from the music rattled our fan, that’s how loud it was. Needless to say we didn’t get much sleep last weekend.

Also, we spent most of last week without a generator. That means that we go into major energy conservation mode. The number one priority in that situation is having a fan at night- that’s above cold/hot food, light, computer (keeping in touch with our family and the world), and Xbox :). Actually, since we’re so concerned about having a fan at night, we abstain from all the rest! In that situation, you either go to bed as soon as it gets dark or you have to get really creative. We could read with a headlight, but it’s not worth it with all of the bugs! Since we didn't have light or any other form of entertainment we did what any young, married couple would do- we took stats of course! We decided to give you guys a better idea of what it’s like to live in Haiti. We can tell you all that we want, but it doesn't make sense without either coming here yourself, or cold, hard facts. And that’s what we’re giving you- cold hard facts! We sat in our gallery one evening and took stats of all of the noises that we hear in a set period of time and we did it multiple times to give you an idea of what noises are more prevalent at different times. From 7:13-7:41 we had stats on horns, dogs, whistles, vehicles, 4-wheelers, screams/cries (outside HATS), screams/cries(inside HATS), music/drums, singing, doors, pots/pans, birds, guinea hens, clapping. Screams/cries (inside HATS) destroyed the competition with over 400 noises because the kids hadn't gone to bed yet. Pots/pans were second(159) and horns got third (66). From 8:13-8:41 we registered stats on horns, screams/cries (outside HATS), dogs, whistles, vehicles, fireworks/guns/backfires, music/drums, doors, guinea hens, clapping, laughs, squealing brakes, pigs, and tractors. Screams/Cries(inside HATS) depleted to zero because the kids went to bed, but dogs picked up the slack and registered 331 barks. Screams/cries (outside HATS) took second with 94, and horns got third again with 57 followed closely by guinea hens with 56. Some interesting stats during that time period were fireworks/gunshots/backfires, which registered 10 noises (we only added fireworks and backfires because we hoped that they weren't all gunshots!). Also, we heard a tractor 75 percent of the time, but it was one very slow tractor. There were also a few horns that entered our hearing range honking and didn’t stop until they were out of our hearing range. I’ll finish with a few charts I drew up of our findings.

Timeline of noises per hour
Pie chart of Vehicles that drive past HATS

As for work this last week- the boss is gone, what do you think we’re doing?! Sleeping in, taking long lunch breaks, and quitting work early to go to Sonic for a coney dog and cherry limeade. Actually, we haven’t gotten as much work done as we thought we would, because now that Karen is gone, we’re needed for everything- and I mean everything (only Karen really knows what that means!). I've been working on dressers for the kid’s homes and that’s what I've been working on pretty much all week since I am building 6 or 7 of them. I took a break from that one day to replace one of the doors in the devotion room and fix the other one (neither of them closed and one of them was practically held together by its paint).

Ismyis telling me how to fix the door

Jess has been trying to paint the devotion room, and I want to emphasize the word ‘trying.’ Since it’s summer and the kid’s haven’t started tutoring yet (they start on Monday), in and around the devotion room is the kids prime play spot. And they love Jess so they are constantly around her ankles. Also, since Jess knows Creole better than I do (and all the employees have figured that out too!), they typically go to her first with their questions. They will come to me, but only to ask where Jess is. It kinda hurts my feelings, but I guess I understand because I would also get tired of asking for diapers and getting peanut butter. Also, work is coming along rather well at the school. The school library/office now has walls.

Work at the school

The generator wasn't working on Wednesday, so it was a very different day, especially for Seth and I. Wednesday, Antoinette always goes to the market for food for the kids home. Also, Naomi needed to take Sandra to the doctor because she had a bump, sort of like a small cyst, on her stomach. They both returned later that day and Sandra is doing much better thanks to some medications. While they were gone, though, there was Seth, I, Laurette and 17 kids. Now see this would be a perfect situation for a video because it is a treat for the kids, Laurette could cook the food, and Seth and I could get a few hours of solid work. Wrong-o, remember the delco being broken. Seth and I tried to work and realized it was near impossible lest a kid gets doused in paint or someone tried to screw a hole in the wall. So, we tried to keep the kids occupied. I got out the chalk and we drew the things we were thankful for God giving us. Josie drew her “Maman” Karen (They miss you!), Ti Luckner was the chalk distributor, and, well, Jofky, Karena, and Anne found another way to use the chalk: Jofky and Karena on their bodies, and Anne in her mouth, like everything else. (The chalk is non-toxic, I promise.)

Playing with Chalk
The generous distributor
In their eyes skin is better than cement
It's not food

After the chalk session, we headed to the swing set. The kids wanted Dickie’s game, I had a hard time figuring out what this was, until they showed me a washers set that Dickie had made for the kids. For most of the rest of the afternoon, they hung out by the swing set and took turns with Dickie’s game. (Dickie, that was a true savior today, so thanks!) Once the generator got working again later that day, Seth needed to make some cuts of wood, so the kids got their long-awaited video.

Dickie's game
Who's winning?

Friday, Papa stopped by to say his daily “Hello” to the kids. This time he loaded them all into the truck to take them down to his house to give them a little snack. As they were gone, a huge storm began to unfold. As they were returning to the compound, a huge downpour started. The kids got soaked seeing as they were in the back of the truck. The little ones, Anne, Karena, Jofky, Ti Luckner, and Judel quickly wanted warmed. We grabbed towels and just cuddled with the little ones as the older ones ran for almost an hour in the pouring rain. They had such a blast and it was a true joy just to sit and watch them roll in the puddles of water. Sadly, we have no good pictures, but thankfully we were able to just fully enjoy their happiness without trying to take pictures. The simple joys of life. God is so good!
In the next blog, I (Seth) will write a little about my family background. I’m a bit too busy right now. Thanks for all of your support of HATS- we wouldn't be able to do it without all of you! God bless you! Enjoy these random pictures!

Jofky helping with fabric
Tifi giving Judel some love
JJ the builder
Eske ou grangou?
Two thumbs up for being as dirty as he is
Ann and Judel
Naptime
The girls at church
The boys at church
Moise and Ismyis hanging out with Sandra
Bros